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	<title>Comments on: What Makes A Good Relationship</title>
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		<title>By: Daphne</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 06:06:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ale,

I like the way you phrase it - that relationships mutate. Sometimes it&#039;s our expectation that people stay the same that gets us into a whole lot of trouble - taking things for granted etc. Thanks for your wise comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ale,</p>
<p>I like the way you phrase it &#8211; that relationships mutate. Sometimes it&#8217;s our expectation that people stay the same that gets us into a whole lot of trouble &#8211; taking things for granted etc. Thanks for your wise comment.</p>
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		<title>By: Ale -- Profound Joy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ale -- Profound Joy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 18:51:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Daphne, again. This writing is very reassuring. Relationships mutate and it&#039;s a natural process because we do mutate and transform ourselves everyday.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Daphne, again. This writing is very reassuring. Relationships mutate and it&#8217;s a natural process because we do mutate and transform ourselves everyday.</p>
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		<title>By: Daphne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 03:15:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Michelle,

Thanks for your comment, and sorry for my late reply. Yes it does take time for wisdom to kick in on hindsight, yet when it does, all relationships do turn out to be &#039;good&#039; in some way, don&#039;t they?

@ Sara,

Your comment made my day, and I am so happy that the post helped you a little. Accepting &#039;what is&#039; can sometimes be very difficult, because we are so focused on &#039;what i want&#039; instead. I&#039;m glad that you&#039;ve accepted this important relationship for what it is - that is liberating and perhaps will free you to see the real value this relationship has for you, and that person for who she is rather than who you wish she was. Thanks so much for sharing. You make writing this post worthwhile.

@ Evelyn,

So good to see you back! And you&#039;ve reminded me of an important truth - relationships tell me far more about myself than they do about the other person, whether it&#039;s what I love or what I hate about the other person... all this is just a mirror to myself. Actually I&#039;m not even sure I want the &#039;right person&#039; to come along anymore. I&#039;m happy and at peace and am coming to think that I prefer life this way... but at the same time I know I should remain open. Thanks for dropping by!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Michelle,</p>
<p>Thanks for your comment, and sorry for my late reply. Yes it does take time for wisdom to kick in on hindsight, yet when it does, all relationships do turn out to be &#8216;good&#8217; in some way, don&#8217;t they?</p>
<p>@ Sara,</p>
<p>Your comment made my day, and I am so happy that the post helped you a little. Accepting &#8216;what is&#8217; can sometimes be very difficult, because we are so focused on &#8216;what i want&#8217; instead. I&#8217;m glad that you&#8217;ve accepted this important relationship for what it is &#8211; that is liberating and perhaps will free you to see the real value this relationship has for you, and that person for who she is rather than who you wish she was. Thanks so much for sharing. You make writing this post worthwhile.</p>
<p>@ Evelyn,</p>
<p>So good to see you back! And you&#8217;ve reminded me of an important truth &#8211; relationships tell me far more about myself than they do about the other person, whether it&#8217;s what I love or what I hate about the other person&#8230; all this is just a mirror to myself. Actually I&#8217;m not even sure I want the &#8216;right person&#8217; to come along anymore. I&#8217;m happy and at peace and am coming to think that I prefer life this way&#8230; but at the same time I know I should remain open. Thanks for dropping by!</p>
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