Comments on: 20 Ways to Ruin A Relationship http://www.joyfuldays.com/relationship-tips/ How to find happiness and abundance through personal development. Create a life you love and live on your own terms. Start today to become a better, happier, richer person a week from now. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 11:12:49 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Dill http://www.joyfuldays.com/relationship-tips/#comment-126370 Dill Fri, 23 Dec 2011 21:07:58 +0000 http://www.joyfuldays.com/?p=1865#comment-126370 i just dont know where to start. I do 10 out of the 20 on a consistent basis. Ive ruined my marriage. im at the end of my rope. i dont know why i do this. i just dont know where to start. I do 10 out of the 20 on a consistent basis. Ive ruined my marriage. im at the end of my rope. i dont know why i do this.

]]> By: Cory http://www.joyfuldays.com/relationship-tips/#comment-42533 Cory Fri, 25 Feb 2011 10:13:32 +0000 http://www.joyfuldays.com/?p=1865#comment-42533 Hiya! Thanks for posting this. I just broke up with my guy recently and have been, I guess, reading to see if I for sure made the right decision. I realize now I was in a completely emotionally abusive relationship. And now reading this list I see obviously I made a few mistakes, but I didn't repeat them. But something REALLY stuck out to me. I realize now that my former boyfriend NEVER EVER uttered the words "I'm sorry" to me. About anything. Ever. I realized that I felt like I was always apologizing about something. Hell at one point I was criticized about saying "I'm sorry" and had to apologize for that! Thank you. Sincerely. I'm at peace, and this helps solidify it. Hiya! Thanks for posting this. I just broke up with my guy recently and have been, I guess, reading to see if I for sure made the right decision.

I realize now I was in a completely emotionally abusive relationship.

And now reading this list I see obviously I made a few mistakes, but I didn’t repeat them. But something REALLY stuck out to me.

I realize now that my former boyfriend NEVER EVER uttered the words “I’m sorry” to me. About anything. Ever. I realized that I felt like I was always apologizing about something. Hell at one point I was criticized about saying “I’m sorry” and had to apologize for that!

Thank you. Sincerely.

I’m at peace, and this helps solidify it.

]]> By: Tired http://www.joyfuldays.com/relationship-tips/#comment-41408 Tired Fri, 18 Feb 2011 14:59:22 +0000 http://www.joyfuldays.com/?p=1865#comment-41408 I came out of a marriage because we could not talk about the things that was creating problems in our marriage. I vowed to never let anyone get that close to me again. But a year after my divorce i met a lady that had been through the same. I lowered my fence and we begin dating. Big misstake: I said this because of #1 on the list. If you visualize your relationship going bad, eventually it will. Great list but we must remember one thing.Treat every relationship as a new one.Never bring old baggage in a new relationship. THANKS: Tired I came out of a marriage because we could not talk about the things that was creating problems in our marriage. I vowed to never let anyone get that close to me again. But a year after my divorce i met a lady that had been through the same. I lowered my fence and we begin dating. Big misstake: I said this because of #1 on the list. If you visualize your relationship going bad, eventually it will. Great list but we must remember one thing.Treat every relationship as a new one.Never bring old baggage in a new relationship. THANKS: Tired

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